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Destination Wedding

by Big Dopes

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    limited edition compact disc! it's compact, it's round, it's got a rainbow flicker when you hold it up to the light! gatefold wallet-style case featuring fetching art by John Treash and photography by Jake Cox, with styling by Tiana Graves.

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    12" vinyl of "Destination Wedding" pressed onto creamy-white vinyl. Featuring album artwork, label, and liner note/lyric insert designed by John Treash with photography by Jake Cox. all white vinyl orders will receive a free sticker, photo, or magnet from the band!

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    12" vinyl version of "Destination Wedding" pressed onto classic black vinyl. Featuring album artwork and liner note designed by John Treash, with photography by Jake Cox. all vinyl orders will receive a free sticker, photo, or magnet from the band!

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  • Record/Vinyl + Digital Album

    own a special piece of dopey history! this is a test pressing copy that we used to ensure the sound of our vinyl met our standards. and folks: it did!

    all buyers of test pressings receive a separate vinyl copy of the album with the artwork in the color of their choice! plus stickers, photos, and a handwritten note.

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1.
our idle days are trapped in cinematic haze i’m bored to death, let's have a seance we were beholden to no one! but your posture changed,  when I copied the keys to my place can we be lovers on the weekdays? cuz this start-stop love’s got me dreamin’ different scenes i think i need real stakes wanna feel my cold heart ripped open so long I've waited for closure and the halfway ain't holding me over said today’s a yes but tomorrow’s a maybe or less can we be lovers on the weekdays? i know i sound deranged this is a brazen invasion of space! still: can we be lovers on the weekdays?
2.
Cycles 02:22
you only call when you got nothing to do is that how much i matter to you? on and on it cycles, yeah we’re both flakes but get us in the same room it's like we never changed! on and on it cycles, yeah let’s fuck around, fuck around yeah strange just when i think i’m getting deeper with you that’s when i feel you fade away on and on it cycles all in all it’s fine let’s fuck around oooh if it’s over, just be up front with me. let’s skip on to the grieving. on and on it cycles all in all it’s fine
3.
the lake’s reflection is a cotton candy cloud, oh yeah mhmm no one would know it by the way you run your mouth in spitting distance there’s forgiveness in your face from further out I feel ya yanking at my chain, oh yeah I do love in real time scrapes a knee and you’re still waiting for us king kurzweil’s at cruising speed, for the time being so bored of certitudes and wisdom of the crowds living like faith is just the opposite of doubt it’s a hidden bullseye, secret key into your parents’ closet ancient actor that steals the scene whose name i can’t remember. brightest night sky, deepest clean, the loss that won me over love in real time’s the death of me. ms. jenkins party of two we’ve got a table for you
4.
High Street 03:48
high street was our happy place the sign is bolted down so it’s not torn away and hung up on a freshman’s wall by poster of bob marley with a soccer ball no i don’t have the wherewithal to run. midnight is the province of the young it flashes when the leaves are dead you dream of mississippi and a single bed. passion without elegance, holes inside your jeans from when you hopped the fence no i don’t have the wherewithal to roam it’s pretty but it still don’t feel like home. midnight is the province, midnight is the province of the young. bridge “not the fault of anyone” is a fantasy not the fault of anyone is the bed that we have made how you are with anyone is how you are with everyone you say instrumental of verse chorus they don’t have the wherewithal to stay it’s like pulling teeth to keep these two awake midnight is the province of the young, may love not fade away
5.
Tom's Theme 02:01
Tom, you’ve got a warm and kindhearted soul. Thanks for powering our country! I know the work’s been taking a toll but Tom, you gotta eat until your stomach’s three-quarters full you can live to be a hundy -- if a hundred years is your goal, yeah setting goals and thinking of tom, dreaming of the weekend with tom. Tom, your bag is headed straight for the hole. thanks for powering our country! you let me in on the joke, reasons why i’m thankful for Tom.
6.
I could take you anywhere, if you wanted to get out of your way take an hour outside your head. It was such a stupid sentiment, and I'd do anything to have it again break it down to repeatable motions.
7.
Aimee Avenue 03:42
so fleet the works of man; back to the earth again. all ancient and holy things fade like a dream. whatcha recommend i do? aimee avenue i need you to keep your shoulders straight now, if you mimic the posture of your subject, it will make them feel a bit more comfortable. remember to focus on the victim, not the perpetrator. this way you're bound to have a more constructive conversation, which is what we want if the parking lot, the DMV has drained me of my empathies could this patient love, be poison fruit when we're in the water line, would we save a space for you? whatcha recommend i do? aimee avenue
8.
hazy autumn back in mid-missouri, the greenery surrendered to the red, my ears are ringing like tornado sirens melinda shoots confetti on your bed. i, i can’t wait till morning comes again ahah, aha let’s watch the sun wake up my distant friend. at halloween, if a kid wants candy she’s got to tell the homeowner a joke. a little extra when you stick the landing you can stop me if you’ve heard this one before ah, you made your father your best man ahah, aha, then did the moonwalk for your first dance aha, lada, your voice keeps breaking up my distant friend i know i’m going heavy on the rhetoric, but could i change your mind? close friends living int he same neighborhood, it just makes sense convenience-wise ah, i won't let them draw those curtains just yet let’s get the gap closed up, my distant friend
9.
Strange Love 02:07
you can’t rely on emotion it’s like a cloud rollin through but we’ve had this big one hanging over that’s jankin’ my groove your eyes have grand implications but still your lips never move give me that verbal confirmation that you feel it too why’s it so strange to say you love me? like it’s some burden to prove? i know the word’s gotten cheaper over time that’s real and maybe it’s too far gone to capture the depths of how you really feel but somehow it still wrecks me that you can’t shake one loose (just one, just say it) why’s it so strange to say you love me? what kinda harm would it do? i sense some friction when you touch me i wanna get smooth (various monosyllabic sounds) why’s it so strange to say you love me? why’s it so strange to say you love me? why’s it so strange to say you love me? why’s it so strange to say you love me?
10.
Merced 04:00
spring's got you you so messed up in a loop: is this loneliness or solitude? a face divorced from a name in a rented town “things that would take you ten minutes’ll take me an hour” Merced, it’s time let’s kill the classics hearing ya talk up death as escape at a pacers game, on a saturday half the crowd does the wave now it’s winding down spend some time with me i’m off at 9 today. the devil will find you when you hit the peak of your powers merced as if no one on earth can conceive of the mess you’re in it’s partially selfish to ask you to stay at this hour merced it’s time take off the plastic wrap, aw yeah let’s kill the classics
11.
Pokr Boi 01:35
poker boy, don’t change your style it’ll take away the mystery! over pair, you raise the flop and it’s too late now to fold it’s the usual dilemma in the tyranny of twos. shoulder pads, those suits and ties met the dusty bins of history. the kings and queens wear chucks and jeans, send ya postcards from the road it’s the prisoner’s dilemma it’s the tyranny of choose! and i will never change i’m in love with the previous version of you.

credits

released November 5, 2021

music arranged by Big Dopes
songs and lyrics written by Eddie Schmid
except "Aimee Avenue" written by Big Dopes, lyrics by Schmid
and "Take You Anywhere" music by Justin Catanzaro and Eddie Schmid, lyrics by Schmid
"Aimee Avenue" contains a partial excerpt from "Old and New” by Charles Kingsley

Eddie Schmid - vocals, guitar, various mouth sounds, handclaps
Justin Catanzaro - bass, backing vocals, guitar, brake cleaner, rhythmic breathing, accordion
Paul Simmons - guitar, synth, backing vocals
Ricky Brewer - drums, percussion, guitar, backing vocals, field recordings
Mark Anderson - synth, glockenspiel, percussion
Alayne Simmons - saxophone on 1, 5
Erin Graff - backing vocals on 1, 6
Jess Parsons - piano on 8; synth organ on 2, 5
Stephen Pamas - backing vocals on 1, 8, 10; synth and trumpet on 10
Sarah Werckle - handclaps on 5
art director / photography: Jake Cox
album art designer: John Treash
stylist / set design: Tiana Graves

produced by Mark Anderson
assistant engineer: Collin Ingram, Stephen Pamas
recorded at TBC Studios, Denver, CO
mixed by Larry Crane at Jackpot! Studios
mastered by Adam Boose at Cauliflower Audio

Special thanks: Anna, Eli, Dylan Owens, Andy Borgione, Robert Mayper, B2M, Jackson Emmer, Daniel DiMarchi, Casper, Genghis

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Big Dopes Denver, Colorado

Big Dopes' loose, lighthearted feel evokes 90s alternative and indie. Lead songwriter Eddie Schmid uses a playful, conversational vocal style to sing through neuroses about long-distance relationships, being a houseguest, and wasting money on shitty headphones. Ricky Brewer (drums) and Justin Catanzaro (bass) lend vibrant, dynamic rhythms, and Paul Simmons adds colorful violin, guitar, and synth. ... more

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